I consider my children a joy and blessing and I feel as though God gave me these girls to raise as a way of displaying His love for me. Nevertheless I still crave adult interaction. A typical night in my home involves of all three of my girls wanting to tell daddy about their day, my husband attempting to catch a moment of my time to discuss work and me having the daunting task of getting dinner on the table in a timely manner so it doesn't get cold. This is all after a day of watching Mickey Mouse Clubhouse, dancing to the Veggie Tales CD 5 times back to back, and laundry, cooking, homeschooling my youngest, and entertaining a baby, 3 children, and a teenager. After 5 days a week following that routine it is time for me to feel like a woman again, just as much as a mom.
5 Signs I am a mom:
1. When I get time in the car without kids and the Veggie Tales CD is playing, I begin singing along and I can't change the music until the song is finished.
2. I get preoccupied with the TV while cooking dinner because I want to make sure Mickey has solved his dilemma.
3. I find myself putting more attention into My Little Pony and kiddy pools and less into in fashion, food, or anything remotely close to what I enjoyed before kids.
4. Instead of reading John Grisham novels, I am checking out mystery books from the kids section and they are actually holding my interest.
5. My idea of fine dining is dining without someone complaining about their day.
5 ways I break free and feel like a woman again:
1.When alone I drive in silence or turn on my favorite music and reflect on how great God is or plan a trip for our anniversary.
2. While cooking dinner I direct the kids outside to play so I can enjoy a nice cup of coffee in addition to preparing a great meal.
3. I take 30 min. after the kids are in bed to do something that I seldom have time to enjoy. I make sure it is unrelated to children.
4. I spend 30 min. every morning reading the Bible and enjoying it while my kids watch a cartoon
5. I make sure to leave the house with my husband and no children, even if it's not for dinner. There are times when we grab coffee at Starbucks and people watch.
As mom's we all need time alone without our kids. No matter how much I love my children I still need to take time out from being a mom and relax, rest in the Lord, and spend time with my husband.